"DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY & DON'T LET OTHERS CONTROL YOUR HAPPINESS".
Has it ever taken you a little longer to achieve something than you would have liked? or it took you longer than what society expects of you? This could be for anything a task, a job or something personal. I've got my hand up sky high for this! I bring up this topic because as of yesterday I now have my license (My Red P's).. and I am so damn happy about it & proud of myself for reaching my goal!
I've had people & friends a long way have their view or opinion about me not having my license for years.. "WHAT! you don't have your license, how do you even live" or "It's so easy to drive, you should have your license" or "I can't believe you still don't have your license". On a more positive note I've also had some really encouraging & positive views on it as well that I wish I focused on more in the beginning..
Of course everyone is going to have their own opinion or views about different things and that is totally okay but in beginning I let the negative remarks bother me about my license & make me feel bad about myself, rather then pushing them away & focusing on the positives & working toward my goal. It came to a point where I decided that the negative comments weren't doing me any good & yes it may have taken me longer than what society expects of me to obtain my license.. and now all I have to say is, so what, it's my journey & I will travel at what ever speed I like (of course sticking to the speed limit when driving.. hehe)
At the end of the day all that mattered was how that I viewed it myself & the goals I set to get me to where I wanted to be and I feel so proud of myself for being where I am today & really thankful for those few who supported me & helped me get there too! Applying this attitude to any situation by only focusing on the positives (this includes positive & constructive criticism too), rather than focusing on the negatives will be a lot better for you & getting where you want to be.
I thought I would end on a fashion note & keep it short & sweet ..everyone needs a Little White Dress (LWD) ..that's the opposite to the LBD but I think in summer every girl needs a LWD it's fresh & cool! especially this one by Finders Keepers with on trend cut outs!
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ROC SUNGLASSES, DISSH NECKLACE + SAMANTHA WILLS NECKLACE, VINTAGE COAT, FINDERS KEEPERS DRESS, ASOS WATCH, VINTAGE CLUTCH & WITCHERY SANDALS
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